Wednesday, 31 March 2021

I Forgive You, But Don’t Do It Again

« I forgive you, but don’t do it again.” That is how we often react to an offense. On the one hand, we let go of the string with the IOU at the end, but we make sure to attach another string at the end of the first one to pull back the IOU, just in case. That leaves me to wonder just how unconditional and real that type of “forgiveness” is.

In the Gospel of John, the teachers of the law and the Pharisees bring an adulteress to Jesus and try to trap him into committing a religious faux pas. They give him a choice between rejecting the law of Moses or contradicting himself and the message of compassion and forgiveness he has been teaching. Jesus adroitly untangles himself from the situation by inviting the one who has not sinned to throw the first stone. Exit “old fogies” like me who know full well they are not sinless and gradually everyone else. Jesus is left alone with the woman and a dialog ensues:

Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”

“No one, sir,” she said.

“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.” 

John 8, 10-11

Generations of teachers of the law and Pharisees to the present day have tried to mitigate the damage that the defeat of their Judean predecessors in this encounter with Jesus inflicted on their way of thinking. They have tried interpreting the “Go and leave your life of sin.” (often translated as “Go and sin no more.”)  as a way of pulling back the IOU. They could not accept that God’s forgiveness was unconditional, completely free, and with no strings attached. They, therefore, interpreted the “Go and leave your life of sin.” as a condition for forgiveness to occur. Or so it seems to me.

I am not a theologian but, since the words of Jesus are always words of life, could it be that what he really meant was, “Go now, my unconditional love for you will always be with you to help you break away from patterns of relating to yourself, to others, and to God that prevent you from living fully and freely.” Could Jesus’ words have been wings to set her free rather than a leash to bring her back in case she did not live up to her end of the bargain?  

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